WHY RELATIONSHIPS BREAK UP

Relationships first started because two people got interested in each other, and relationships typically break up because either person became less interested in the other person.
But it’s not actually so. There could be much reason why relationships break up as the number of break-ups themselves, but I’ll try here to analyze ten prominent ones briefly in no specific order.

•     INFATUATION

Lots of relationships have been broken because it was founded on infatuation. This is what is called love at first sight. A man sees a lady today and immediately fall in love
with her, no it does not work that way. Many relationships on infatuation do not last because it is based on selfish interest. To fall in love is to show commitment and it is built over a period of time and not in a day.

•    SEPERATION

Sometimes relationship split because the folks got separated for a certain period of time, as for the case of work transfer or an oversea study opportunity. And in such cases they simply meet new people in their new region and form new relationships, and before long the new relationships (in) directly knocks out the initial one. And we know the rest.
So when a job opening takes Monalisa to a to a town up north and she fall in love with another man, her affair with John here just takes a gradual slump. And it is like that too when our neighboring guy travelled out last time, for he stopped calling many people afterwards.

•     SUPERSTITIONS

Perhaps you’ve heard things likes these said before:
•    Fair-skinned men have brought me luck in the past.
•    Whenever I give Mary money I get favor from different quarters.
•    Since I started working with these fellow things have worsened for me.
•    Disappointment comes my way every time I meet with wandi.
All such things makes sense to some people. So they lean toward relationships that appear to cause them favor and speed far from hose that appear to cause them bad fortune. And so some relationships grow or die this way.

•     BEHAVIOUR

I know numerous people who say they broke ties with this or that person because they weren’t pleased with those person behavior towards them or behavior generally. Then there is a long list of behavior kind that routinely tear people apart. But we need not go over it now.

•     PRESSURE

A man’s fiancée might pressure him to fire his secretary and end links with her if she doesn’t want that secretary around, and a lady’s new husband might pressure her to stop seeing certain of her friends, if he’s not satisfy with that friend’s conduct.
We can be pressured by an individual or circumstance in our lives, and sometimes they can influence what we decide about things that concerns us, particularly our relationships.

•    NEGLIGENCE

Some were slack about essential things in relating with their people (such as spending time with them and doing things for them). So the relationship gradually lost thrill and finally went under. That’s how relationships often go under when people neglect responsibilities their relationship brings.   


This are some of the few reasons little reason why relationship break up. I shall be giving you the concluding part next week. Till then, ensure you're enjoying your relationship and don't endure it. You also leave you comment below.